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Julia Bedell's avatar

Thank you Emily. In writing this I am self conscious of how much I take my (generally good) health for granted. I appreciate that it resonated even across our very different experiences. I also appreciate your writing about chronic illness and what you need from others in support. I would love to hear more about your emotional experience of being sick btw! And yes to bougie crackers! Though sometimes it's the goldfish and saltines that I truly crave... (a child at heart). I hope your symptoms are manageable for today at least, and that you have time to rest

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Jim Bedell's avatar

A critical part of our humanity is the fulfillment we get from helping others. This necessitates that we, in return, allow others their own fulfillment.

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Julia Bedell's avatar

Love that! Thanks Dad ❤️

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Alexa Juanita Jordan's avatar

Absolutely beautiful Julia. I relate to this so deeply. Sending you healing, restful vibes.

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Beautiful. Seeing our child outside of ourselves is so helpful. For me, at least, it makes it easier to take care of myself. The challenge, however, is that unless like you at the moment, I’m in a really bad spot, I don’t notice her 😔

Hope you’re feeling better soon

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Julia Bedell's avatar

Aw, that’s a great point. And thanks- I’m feeling better! I should see what she’s up to now

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Jan Peppler's avatar

I'm pretty sure she'd like that....

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